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Hi everyone, thank you for visiting my blog! Let me tell you a bit about myself. First I'm a wife then a mother of two (a 5 & 1yr old). I love to share my experiences, thoughts, ideas, questions really just about everything, lol! I want to be a positive motivation by sharing what I go through. You never know what I'll post, believe me, sometimes I blow my own mind. Having children = never a dull moment. Through it all I try to take one day at time remembering to keep breathing through it all :)

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

To like or not to like???


   Support - Give approval, comfort, or encouragement too. 

 Are there some people in your circle that don't give you support? It can be family, a close friend or friends. Sometimes the ones we expect to support us 100% they don't. Why is it a "stranger" can "like",  "follow",  listen or look but the ones that are suppose to matter the most don't? Is it jealousy at its finest? What emotions do you experience? 

Monday, October 20, 2014

Goals for week of 10/20

   We made it to church on Sunday even though I didn't wake up feeling 100% I made. After church I was done. We stopped got me medicine and I went to sleep about 12:30 until 6:30 pm. Now to today, still not feeling good but I pushed through. The life of a stay at home mom, no days off!

Weekly goals
1) Try to get a workout buddy
2) Workout once this week 
3) Get caught up on my couponing (I haven't clipped my coupons for about 2/ 3mnth! Yikes) 
4) Start looking for items needed for Halloween costumes
5) Go to church


Yearly
3)Stick to what works!
4) Meal plan every week


Monday, October 13, 2014

Goals for week of 10/13

So we didn't get our tent this weekend but we did today. And Sunday we made it to church!!! 
Last weeks goals met. 

This week my goal is to make it everywhere on time! 

Yes I have problems making it places when I'm suppose to. I try not to be more then 10 minutes late though. I've gotten a lot better over the years but with lil man it can be a real struggle. He can be a mommas' boy & requires a ton load of attention so walking out the door can take up to 30 minutes for me. You may be laughing but it's happen to me, no lie! This week I/we have a PTA meeting, field trip & campout. Yep, it's a busy week for me. Really excited though for my daddy this week, he gets two 1st in one week. Oh almost forgot I got to get our lunch for the field trip. What are some of your plans this week? 

Thursday, October 9, 2014

Goals for week of 10/6


Goal time...

I actually wrote these out on Monday & never posted, my apologies. Yes, I know it's Thursday by I still wanted to share :)


My goals are going to be the same from last week since I wasn't able to accomplish them.
Weekly
1) Get a tent by Friday
2) Go to church 


We were going to buy the tent on Saturday but unfortunate my plans had to change. We also missed church, it's ok, we'll be Sunday!! Next week will have more goals. 

Monday, October 6, 2014

Goals for week of 10/1

I know its late but here are my goals from last week. 


It's October 1st and I'm ready to get back to me. I haven't focused on me in a while due to some personal issues & excuses! But, no more. I have a weight goal in mind & a few other goals I need to bring to the for front. With the New Year right around the corner it's time to get started. So with that said lets go.


Weekly
1) go to Church
2) Buy a tent

Monthly
1) Focus on me

Yearly
1) Lose 30 lbs.
2)  Be & stay organized

Sunday, September 28, 2014

A few thoughts on Church

Looking for a church is not easy. Being in an interracial relationship with children I look for a few things. 
Here's my personal list
1) I need a multiracial church
2) Non-denominational 
3) Laid back setting
4) Children's church
I love The Lord but honestly I don't always feel like going to church. That's why I make it a weekly goal so no matter what, I know I need to go. (my accountability) We've been to a few churches and seen a few things. If you start learning personal things about a Pastor does it make you have a different view on them or can you separate the two? Honestly it's hard for me to do it. A Pastors role is extremely crucial & should be taken serious and not as a money maker! I'm coming to you as a spiritual adviser and you need to live right. Yes, I know their human but come on, lets be real! We are all held accountable and a sin is a sin but do you feel they should have some form of higher standards? I do. If someone is doing something illegal do you want them telling you to get yourself right? What if they don't treat their spouse right? What if they live a double life? We can go on and on here. How do you handle when there are things you feel just ain't right? I'm in that situation. I like our Pastor but there is a Pastor at the church that I just don't know about. I do question a few things he speaks about. Man are called but few are chosen (Mat 22:14) the Bible also speaks of false prophets. I'm left puzzled when around him and I don't like that feeling. I struggle with the "You can't judge someone only God can." I'm not trying to judge him but I'm confused based on his preaching and a few things in his personal life. I need to pray that God will give me the direction to go in because this is beyond me. What are your thoughts?