Anniversary

Yesterday we completed our 11 yr anniversary, that's an accomplishment for anybody that is married. As everyone knows marriage is work & if someone tells you differently I would say they are not being truthful, or maybe they are.  You may have a spouse that is submissive and does anything their spouse ask/ tells them, they are still in the honeymoon stage (they haven't been married long enough) or reality doesn't apply to them. When I say reality I mean life. Life includes jobs, children, household, finances, in-laws, family members or just plain drama! No, we don't go into marriage thinking "Oh we are going to have problems" but you have two people coming together as one. You you were not raised together so views, morales, etc  will be different. If you are of the same ethnicity there will be differences and there is no way around it. The manner you handle these differences is what will make or break your marriage.